Ditto! Sometimes I struggle with getting carried away at night, but talking through to myself when I go to snack helps me with getting it back under control (…usually.) Just going “Why do I feel like I NEED a second dessert?” can sometimes get me to stop and walk away.

I bet!! It sounds like you had a truly exhausting day!

I guess I’m surprised because I’ve never been at a hotel that didn’t have a lobby open 24/7. Sure you can’t check in, but I’m surprised you couldn’t plop down in a seat in the lobby and read or browse on your phone until you could check in.

They wouldn’t let you chill out in the lobby?

Most people define demisexual as not feeling sexual attraction until you get to know someone better, after which that bond/intimacy allows you to start feeling sexual attraction.

But the ace community has a LOT of labels and everything I’ve seen is that we’re pretty relaxed on them. Call yourself whatever makes sense to you; you’re probably going to have to explain it anyway! lol

Not the commentor but the context clues of their comments leads me to think it’s because people talk without a filter, like they would their close friends in a private conversation.

Fuck no my life didn’t start getting decent until my late 20s, and nothing that came before that was in my control to change.