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Cake day: December 29th, 2023
  • xor@sh.itjust.workstoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•Cant play monster hunter
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    6 months ago

    most bald jokes seem to be self effacing… otherwise i don’t think most people care that much.
    and while being bald is generally considered unattractive, a lot of people find it extra hot so mathematically it all works out…
    but yeah, body shaming men is extra popular.
    short dudes get it the worst, i guess because of general aggressive primate stuff that goes on…
    but im on the really tall side of things and ive had several shorter guys confide their jealousy to me.
    i’ve seen the pain… the way they see their life as awesome if they were just really tall…
    honestly it’s got a looot of drawbacks…
    can never find shoes that fit, shirts or pants that are the right length, bicycles are usually dangerous… (i’ve personally gone end-over-end)
    bus, planes, restaurants… almost all seats suck
    very rarely, it is like a super power, but usually it’s like a handicap…
    and your penis probably isn’t that small… porn is crazy… (porn addicts are the number 1 customer of porn)
    also, if you lose weight your dick gets bigger (:
    …
    but i’m against all getting down on the way someone is… i guess fat hate gets a pass because people consider it a choice… even though that’s a part of it, it’s not so much under most people’s control… and pretty complex

  • xor@sh.itjust.workstoNo Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How does a SO feel different from a very good friend?
    4·
    6 months ago

    allow me to sum up interpersonal relationships between all 8 billion people in one sentence:
    you can’t

    but, in a nutshell… physical attraction is usually important, so is romance… usually a commitment to this person in terms of time and future plans where they become more like family (and maybe eventually actually family if you have kids)

    there’s such a crazy spectrum of the ways in which people could get along and consider themselves “in a relationship”.
    every rule or tendency is constantly broken, it escapes definition.
    in general, it begins with attraction and flirting, or it’s cemented as a friendship…
    and, poetically, i’d say it’s a relationship when they start to see themselves as an entity, and of course others will see them like that too… a sort of hive-mind develops…
    sorta like when celebrity couples get a combo nickname…

  • xor@sh.itjust.workstoLemmy Shitpost@lemmy.world•Cant play monster hunter
    539·
    6 months ago

    why would you expect something like that??
    …
    although all forms of prejudice and hatred are terrible, the online anti-fat hate just bugs so much.
    it’s so common, accepted, and arbitrary
    i mean, at least with racism there’s some kind of stupid “reasoning” behind it. some notion that “others” are a threat, and tribal nonsense.
    but just hating on overweight people is so… pointless…
    anyways, i expect the banning of r/fatpeoplehate and the like has sent some troglodytes over here.
    but, if the instance doesn’t do something, theyll get defederated